Women Issues Speaker – My Girl, Not My God – Breaking Control and Manipulation to Live Free

My girl, not my God.

An enlightening message for ladies and gents

Come on men it’s time to take a stance!

Be the man God created you to truly be.

Get off your butt and turn off the TV

There is more to life than living vicariously

Through your sports heroes and teams weekly

Focus on yourself a bit to live purposefully

To regain your divine identity and live powerfully!

Shake and awake yourself to your divine destiny

Refuse to be belittled by the woman you married

Or whichever female is in your life temporarily

Be the man of the house spiritually and dynamically

Lead by example and that with tender humility

If your girl begins complaining and getting boisterous

Remind her she is your girl, not your God to be worshipped

Remove the mouthy woman from the self-centered pedestal

Take back your life and give it wholeheartedly to your Creator

If this disappoints, aggravates and irritates your prized princess

Well then she can go! Because it will no longer be her show!

If your life is to be full of peace and joy, you must submit to God

Partner with the Lord of life and put an end to all of the strife

Stop the whimpering, whining, complaining and cruel criticism

The many manipulative measures designed and used by women

To manuever and get what they want, while driving God from your life.

No more! The mighty Creator is knocking patiently at your heart’s door

Waiting for your invitation to be extended graciously unto Him

So He in all of His goodness and glory may majestically come in!

Befriend the living God and His glory will miraculously clothe you

Embrace the Lord of love and His abundant blessings will chase you!

No longer will you be weakened by your drama queen’s unkind words

Because the Word of life will make you stronger and fill you with faith

After which you can boldly arise with fire in your eyes to run the race

To fulfill your destiny with eyes open wide to divinely see the heavenly

To bring blessings and breakthroughs where you need God to move.

To resurrect and reestablish your manhood and attract godly women to you

To melt and change whichever woman is currently attached to you

To silence skeptics and noisy negatives being voiced among you

To turn hopeless situations around and make gray skies blue!

Reconnect with your Creator and don’t worry about what the girl will do.

Women Issues – The Children of Divorce

Children of divorced parents are also more sceptical about finding true love and settling down. Before you decide that this article is trying to spoil you from enjoying your big day, this is just to make you aware of the facts so you are more equipped to enjoy your married life fully, even though you may not have grown up in successful marital surroundings.

As child of divorce, it is important not to lose hope by thinking that you are going to commit the same mistakes your parents did. You will have to be a little optimistic and think that you have learned from the mistakes of your parents to make sure history does not repeat itself.

Here are other key points to help you: You will have to learn to forget and forgive the past. A successful marriage is difficult enough to maintain without bringing all your old laundry to it. First, make peace with your parents and forgive them. Do not blame their divorce for everything in your life. This will help you make peace with past and concentrate on the future with a fresh prospective. Remember that you are not your mom- remember that you are a different person and stop worrying about committing your parent’s mistakes. Remember that you control your fate and you make your own decisions. Also, accept that your spouse is not your dad or think that he is going to make the same mistakes as your dad did. Do not equate his mistakes to your father’s and think of the worst-case scenario. In order for you have a successful marriage, think of him as his own person, and place your complete trust on him. If he makes a mistake, be quick to forgive and enjoy each other’s company.

You are at an advantage when it comes to making mistakes. You have witnessed a failing marriage first hand. You just have to make sure that you do not perform the same mistakes in your married life. You can also look at your friends’ parents or relatives who have had successful marriages for pointers and talk to them.

Concentrate on your unique future. You should not define the path you are going to follow and base it on your parent’ union. You start by trusting your husband and placing complete faith in your relationship if you truly love him and like his company. Start building a better future with him by talking to him about your issues so he can understand you better.