Women Issues Speaker – She Said “I’m Leaving You!” But As For Me I’m Happy As Can Be!

She said, “I am leaving you!”
Yet this before I have heard.
Again today this I did hear.
However I somehow did not fear
As a women issues speaker
I’ve been down this road before
Emotional frustration at the door
Personal agony eating her within
I being the closest person to blame
Lest her illusions of grandeur end
In less than futile fortune and fame
Nevertheless me today she did disdain
Bitter sweet is a double-minded dame
Who seeks to strengthen her stature
Inwardly pursue and ponder another game
Considering other options Tom, John and Ross
Therefore I said, “Good. It is your loss!”
Walking out the house, I went to workout
Focusing my body and mind on being my best
Not succumbing to her words of torment
Refusing to be belittled by them in the least
Remembering 3 billion women in the world need
Encourage myself and my emotions I did feed
Rather than being beguiled and caused to bleed
By her vile mechanism of emotional manipulation
I purposed to stand strong without hestitation
After a good two-hour workout I happily went home
To surprisingly find the grumpy girl long gone
Replaced by a cheerful, nurturing and loving wife
What happened to remove the turmoil and strife?
This I know not, neither do I care to fully explore
Yet this one thing I know, when complaining arose
I got up with confidence and walked out the door.
Determined to maintain my sanity and this for sure
Therefore gents be troubled by her threats no more!
Having done your best, pray that it’s greatly blessed
Then happily rejoice, live your life and forget the rest
Neither be bothered by her PMS or foul moods swings
Stand strong remembering within you possess everything
Nor do you need a woman to affirm and validate you.
This you can happily do alone and cultivate yourself.
Happiness is an inside job which we must attend to
Otherwise a woman can get beneath your skin eventually
To belittle, betray, threaten, torment and manipulate you.

Women Issues Speaker – Self Respect and Discernment to Deal With Players Preying on You

It breaks my heart to hear of women being taken advantage of by deceitful men. I recently heard of a lonely woman who got involved with a younger man and was duped by him to take out a second mortgage on her home to “invest” in building a house (on land he owned) in Jamaica.

She was promised the two would live there together.

The only problem is the two were not married and she financed the majority of the construction of the home with him doing a little oversight during the building.

Once the home was built (which cost her $180,000 USD), the two broke up. When she asked her former boyfriend to sell the home or refund her money, he ignored her entirely and stopped returning her phone calls. Living in a foreign country, the lady had little recourse by law as she had no contract nor marital covenant.

Being in an entirely different country with no written contract whatsoever, this player preyed on this foolish woman who was seduced by her emotions and promises of love to invest her entire life’s savings, children’s inheritance and basically her entire estate in an ex-boyfriend’s new Caribbean home (which she did not have any contractual interest nor a marital right to claim).

That was enough money to send everyone of her children and grandchildren to college. The woman never bought any of her children a car or house, but when some smooth talking player passed by ready to prey on her insecurity and emotional emptiness she opened up her entire bank account to be stolen right beneath her eye.

The moral of this sad story is don’t do business ladies on love, because it may later turn out to be nothing more than momentary infatuation, lust and you losing big time at the hands of a smooth talker and player preying handsomely on you!

When the emotional flurry, butterflies and romance is gone you had better be sure you have not signed away your personal estate and financial investments.

Guard your heart and your purse when dating men. I don’t care if you are in a “committed” relationship or not. I don’t even care if you are engaged. Until you are legally married, you have no business living together, sharing a home, nor bank account.

If you have to finance a man’s life – get rid of him asap! Tell him to get lost and to get a job. Don’t invest in any man’s dreams until you are married to him.

If you are so desperate and emotionally lonely that you are selling yourself (or rather paying / bribing guys to date and be with you), they are not worthy of you. They are purely playing you, making you no better than a pimp and the man the whore.

Get a grip and take a check up from the neck up. Listen to your Pastor, family and friends. The first sign of danger is when you “love him so much” and begin to feel “nobody else understands… we’re in love” etc. that you isolate yourself and remove yourself from outside counsel and wisdom.